​Your physical relationship may have been hot and steamy before marriage, but now “life” has set in. You have gotten married, the baby is here and you feel as though your life is in a rut. You may be at home with baby all day and the last thing you really want is a grown man crawling all over you. He has dropped hint that you don’t seem the same and that he wants more alone time with you. You want the same thing too. You want the intimacy back that you and your mate once shared, but how do you get that back? You are tired at the end of the day, feeling as if you have given all you have to give, but in essence you just need a change in mindset.
Here are 10 easy changes you and your mate can start doing today to bring the spice back into your life together.

• What you did to get each other, needs to happen to keep each other.
  • Look, fact is that people do so much to get a mate. When they do, often times one of the two expresses how much the other has changes. Yep, sometimes your mate may get downright lazy or complacent. You both need to remember, that your relationship is a choice. Even though the relationship dynamic changes with baby's arrive, the thoughtfulness and kindness shouldn’t.
• Stop making intimacy a production number.
  • Your love is about a gaze, a touch; the simple things that you do for each other. Meet him at the door when he comes home and take his coat off of him. Give him a hand or foot massage. Walk in the door ready to help with or cook dinner, or be ready to play with the baby or pick up the house and give her at least 30 minutes of time just for her. I remember the rush I got when my husband took out the trash without me mentioning it. These thoughtful acts will go a long way in making your mate feel loved and appreciated. Remember, as a man you may feel that going out to work is enough for your day, but being a mom is usually a 24/7 job. Sometimes her lack of sex drive is her feeling like she is always working. If a “quickie” is as good as it gets, don’t be greedy. Remember morning sex can be a good way to start a day. 

 Sex toys are so common place nowadays. They have become a part of regular use, and/or an expansion on sex play and intimacy. In fact, sex toys have become so common, they are the topic or they have been integrated into some of the most watched TV programs.  Shows such as Sex in the City, Frisky Business, Real Housewives and even Oprah have featured sex toys.  But, what do you do when you don’t want to leave them behind during that next airline travel.  These tips will help make sure you plan ahead and don’t miss out on your enjoyment while away from home.

1. Plan ahead. Plan what you want to take and what plans you have for storage. Will you put your toys in a specially designed case or just a zip-lock bag? The latter is a wise idea with either choice, as you don’t want someone else’s hands all over your toys during any inspection.
2. Remove the batteries, run out the charge if USB rechargeable or engage any lock feature on the toy so it doesn’t turn on and freak everyone out. Last thing you want is to be delayed while TSA waits from the bomb sniffing dog.
3. If checking a bag, put your toys in that bag. It’s just a simpler choice.
4. Regardless to what you store your toys in, put them between your clothes, in the middle of your bag.
5. If asked about your toys, explain truthfully with these simple words…”it’s a _____”, whatever it is. Be it a vibrator, pocket pussy, clit simulator, whatever. It’s your toy and are you really that concerned with what someone at the airport thinks about your travel accessories?
6. When traveling, smaller is better. Pick toys that are less than 7 inches long.
7. Lastly… if you are traveling out of the country, search on-line for the laws or culture regarding sex toys in your country of travel. Here is a partial list of countries where sex toys are illegal as of this post: India, Indonesia, Iran, Iraq, Kuwait, Saudi Arabia, Thailand, and United Arab Emirates. 

So, here are links you may find informative:
Toy storage options: www.zenfullifelovin.com/category/874/Extras/Storage
Small toys for women: www.zenfullifelovin.com/category/8/Vibrators/Bullet-Vibrators
Small toys for men: www.zenfullifelovin.com/category/546/Mens-Toys/Masturbators/Masturbation-Sleeves
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